10 Telltale Signs You Need Help with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
- Dr Titilayo Akinsola
- May 29
- 4 min read
Introduction: The Lingering Shadows of PTSD
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that arises after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. While the media often portrays PTSD as affecting only war veterans or survivors of severe accidents, the truth is that it can impact anyone—including victims of emotional abuse, natural disasters, medical trauma, or even prolonged stress.
Left untreated, PTSD can infiltrate daily life, relationships, and physical health. Recognizing the early warning signs of PTSD is the first step toward recovery.

What Is PTSD? Understanding the Mental Health Condition
PTSD is a serious psychiatric disorder triggered by exposure to traumatic experiences. It disrupts the brain's ability to process stress, emotions, and memories in a healthy way. Unlike temporary anxiety, PTSD symptoms can persist for months or years, often intensifying over time.
Here are 10 signs you need help:
Recurring flashbacks or nightmares
Emotional distress and physical reactivity
Avoidance of trauma-related stimuli
Changes in mood and cognition
Recurring Intrusive Thoughts and Flashbacks
One of the hallmark symptoms of PTSD is the presence of intrusive thoughts—unwanted, distressing memories of the trauma that resurface without warning. These thoughts are often accompanied by emotional and physical reactions, such as a racing heart, sweating, or panic.
If you're regularly reliving traumatic events through flashbacks or memories that feel uncontrollable, it’s a strong indicator that PTSD is interfering with your mental health.
2. Avoiding People, Places, or Situations
Avoidance behaviors are a core symptom of PTSD. Individuals may go to great lengths to avoid reminders of their trauma, including:
Steering clear of certain locations
Avoiding conversations or media
Withdrawing from social circles
This avoidance can shrink your world, limit personal and professional growth, and increase feelings of isolation.
3. Hypervigilance and Constant Alertness
PTSD often heightens the brain’s alert system. This hyperarousal causes people to feel constantly on edge. You may startle easily, have trouble relaxing, or feel overly defensive in safe environments.
These symptoms can make daily life feel exhausting and tense. If you’re always scanning for danger or unable to unwind, it’s a red flag that your nervous system is stuck in “fight or flight” mode.
4. Emotional Numbness and Disconnection
Some people with PTSD feel emotionally flat or disconnected from loved ones. This emotional numbing may include:
Difficulty feeling joy, love, or empathy
Inability to connect emotionally in relationships
Feeling like an observer in your own life
This disconnection is your mind’s way of protecting you from pain, but over time, it can harm your mental health and support systems.
5. Persistent Guilt, Shame, or Negative Self-Image
PTSD can distort your self-perception. You might carry an overwhelming sense of guilt or shame, believing you could have done something differently to prevent the trauma.
These negative beliefs can take the form of:
Self-blame
Worthlessness
“I deserved it” thinking
When your inner dialogue becomes harsh or punitive, it’s a signal that professional help is needed.
6. Nightmares and Chronic Sleep Problems
Sleep disturbances are extremely common in PTSD sufferers. These can include:
Recurrent nightmares
Difficulty falling or staying asleep
Fear of sleeping due to traumatic dreams
Over time, sleep deprivation worsens anxiety, memory, and mood, compounding the effects of trauma.
7. Physical Symptoms: When Trauma Impacts the Body
PTSD doesn’t just affect the mind—it affects the body. Many individuals report physical symptoms such as:
Chronic pain
Headaches
Fatigue
Gastrointestinal issues
These somatic symptoms often go undiagnosed or misdiagnosed, when in fact they may be the body’s response to unresolved trauma.
8. Using Substances to Cope
If you’re turning to alcohol, drugs, or prescription medication to manage emotions or numb flashbacks, you may be self-medicating. While these substances might offer temporary relief, they worsen mental health long-term.
Substance misuse also increases the risk of addiction and complicates the healing process.
9. Difficulty Concentrating and Mental Fog
Many people with PTSD struggle with concentration. You might:
Feel mentally “foggy”
Forget tasks or conversations
Struggle with focus at work or school
These cognitive disruptions can reduce productivity, harm academic or job performance, and lower self-esteem.
10. Feeling Hopeless or Suicidal
Perhaps the most dangerous sign of untreated PTSD is the emergence of suicidal ideation or deep hopelessness. These feelings may appear as:
“What’s the point of trying?”
“I wish I didn’t exist”
Formulating a plan to harm yourself
If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, seek immediate help from a mental health professional or crisis support line.
PTSD and Co-occurring Mental Health Disorders
PTSD rarely exists in isolation. It often co-occurs with:
Depression
Anxiety disorders
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
Eating disorders
These overlapping conditions can obscure PTSD symptoms or delay diagnosis. If you're battling multiple emotional or psychological challenges, a trauma-informed therapist can provide clarity and a targeted treatment plan.
Seeking Help: Why Early Intervention Matters
PTSD is highly treatable, but early intervention is crucial. Evidence-based treatments like:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Somatic therapies
Medication
…can significantly improve symptoms, restore mental health, and enhance quality of life.
Ignoring PTSD symptoms can lead to worsening mental, emotional, and physical distress. But with the right support, recovery is not only possible—it’s probable.
Final Thoughts
If any of the signs above resonate with you, it’s not too early—or too late—to ask for help. PTSD may have shaped part of your story, but it does not have to define the rest of it. Reach out to a mental health professional, join a support group, and reclaim control of your life.
You are not broken. You are healing.
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