How to Know If Stress Is Turning Into Anxiety or Depression
- Dr Titilayo Akinsola

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Introduction
Stress is a normal part of life—it kicks in when demands exceed our current coping resources. But when stress lingers, intensifies, or starts to disrupt your functioning, it can evolve into something more serious: an anxiety order, a depressive episode, or a combination of both. At Favor Mental Health, we help clients recognise when stress has crossed the line, and what to do next. In this article, we’ll explore what distinguishes persistent stress from anxiety or depression, signs to watch for, and how to step in early to protect your mental health.

Understanding the Pathway: Stress → Anxiety/Depression
Stress is typically a reaction to external demands: work deadlines, financial pressures, relationship conflicts, health problems. It activates the body’s “fight-or-flight” system: increased adrenaline/cortisol, racing thoughts, heightened alertness. (Yale Medicine)
Anxiety is more than just stress: it involves persistent fear, worry or tension, often without a clear external trigger, and with physical symptoms (heart palpitations, trembling, restlessness) that interfere with daily life. (Premier Health)
Depression is characterised by persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure in activities, changes in sleep, appetite or energy, and difficulty functioning. It often develops after prolonged stress or anxiety, especially if unaddressed. (CDC)
Importantly: unchecked stress is a risk factor for both anxiety and depression. Prolonged activation of stress systems (HPA axis, neurotransmitter imbalance) can shift the brain and body into longer-term dysfunction.
Signs That Stress Is Becoming Anxiety or Depression
Here are markers or red flags to watch. The more of these you recognise, the more urgent it is to seek professional evaluation.
A. When Stress Starts Turning Into Anxiety
Worry or fear that feels excessive or out of proportion to the situation, and continues after the stressor is gone.
Physical symptoms such as heart racing, sweating, shortness of breath, tension in muscles, “butterflies” in stomach—even when no acute threat is present.
Constant restlessness, irritability or a sense of being “on edge”.
Sleep problems: difficulty falling asleep because of rumination, waking up frequently, or persistent fatigue despite rest.
Interference in daily functioning: avoidance of situations, difficulty concentrating, being easily startled.
B. When Stress Is Shifting Toward Depression
Low mood, persistent sadness, emptiness or hopelessness lasting several weeks or more (not just a “bad day”). (Mental Health America)
Loss of interest or pleasure in activities you used to enjoy.
Noticeable changes in sleep (insomnia or oversleeping), appetite (loss or gain), energy levels (persistent fatigue).
Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or remembering things.
Strong feelings of worthlessness, excessive guilt, self-criticism.
Social withdrawal, isolation, or neglecting responsibilities.
C. Patterns & Timeline to Bear in Mind
Stress that resolves when the external demands diminish or your coping resets is normal. But stress that persists beyond 2-4 weeks, becomes more frequent, or begins to disrupt multiple areas of life may indicate progression.
A shift from reactive (stress) to persistent internalised symptoms (anxiety/depression) is a signal: for example, worry that continues after job stress ends; or low mood that remains after the life stressor is removed.
Co-occurrence: Anxiety and depression often coexist, especially when stress has been prolonged. This means you can’t always clearly say “this is only anxiety” or “only depression” — and early intervention helps.
What to Do — Early Interventions & When to Seek Help
1. Self-monitoring and lifestyle intervention
Track your symptoms: keep a simple journal or mood-tracker noting sleep, appetite, mood, worry levels, physical symptoms for at least 2 weeks.
Improve sleep hygiene, nutrition, physical activity, and relaxation practices—these reduce the load of chronic stress and support resilience.
Apply stress-coping strategies: set boundaries (work/home), prioritise downtime, build social support, use breathing/meditation/grounding.
2. Escalate when you see the red flags
If you notice:
Worry or fear that you cannot control, lasting most days for more than several weeks, with physical symptoms.
Low mood, loss of interest, major sleep/appetite changes, impairing your work, relationships or self-care.
Functional decline: missing work, avoiding friends, neglecting hygiene, being unable to concentrate.
Thoughts of self-harm or hopelessness—seek immediate professional help.
3. Engage professional support
A full evaluation by a mental-health professional can determine whether you are dealing with a stress-reaction, an anxiety disorder, a depressive disorder, or a combined presentation.
Early intervention improves outcomes and reduces the risk of chronicity.
Treatment may include psychotherapy (e.g., CBT), possibly medication, lifestyle integration, and monitoring.
4. How Favor Mental Health Can Help
At Favor, we provide:
A comprehensive intake: your stress history, current symptoms, lifestyle, sleep, physical health, coping repertoire.
Functional formulation: we map how stress has built up, what signs suggest anxiety/depression onset, and build an integrated plan.
Monitoring tools: we help you set up symptom-tracking, provide check-ins, and define when to adjust treatment.
Early intervention: relatively minor stress-linked symptoms are addressed before they deepen—this can shorten duration and reduce severity.
Confidential, culturally-sensitive care: especially important in Lagos/Nigeria context, where stigma or resource limitations may delay help-seeking.
Take the Step Before It Gets Harder
If you’ve been under pressure, coping with stress for weeks or months, and you now see signs like persistent worry, low mood, sleep problems, avoidance or fatigue, this is your green light to act. Schedule a paid assessment with Favor Mental Health. We’ll help you determine:
Is this still manageable stress, or is it now anxiety/depression?
What the best intervention is right now to prevent further escalation.
How to build a strategy that protects your mind and your everyday functioning.
Your mental-health trajectory matters. Acting early helps you recover more quickly, minimise disruption, and maintain purpose and stability.
Closing
Stress doesn’t always become anxiety or depression—but when the warning signs appear and remain unchecked, the risk rises. Recognising the difference is not about labelling but about responding early. At Favor Mental Health we believe in proactive, tailored care: helping you transition from surviving stress to thriving through resilience, clarity and connection. You’re not alone—we’re here to help you make that shift.




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